What would you do if someone called their wife a derogatory name while you were out socially? This is the challenge I was asked about recently. The individual in question was drunk and had been ‘joking’ in this vein with others in the group. One person in the group said something along the lines of ‘settle down’ but it was …
You might be doing everything right, be perfectly nice- yet people will still dislike you. This can happen for a plethora of reasons – including that your light makes someone shrink from you. They might complain about others and be frustrated that you won’t join them. Perhaps they are angry and resent your calmness despite sharing the same challenges. Or …